Infidelity

The moment the truth came out, everything changed. Whether it was a physical affair, an emotional connection, a secret kept for too long, or something that felt like a betrayal to one or both of you—your relationship now feels shaken at the core.

You may feel lost, devastated, angry, or numb. You might be struggling to eat, sleep, focus. Maybe you’re flooded with guilt and shame and unsure how to repair what’s been broken. Or maybe you're stuck in the limbo of not knowing whether to stay, leave, or try to make it work.

Infidelity creates a rupture. But it doesn’t have to be the end of the story.

At Integrative Couples Therapy, we specialize in helping couples and individuals navigate the complex and painful territory of betrayal. We offer a path to healing—whether that means repairing your relationship, finding clarity around next steps, or healing individually so you can move forward with confidence and peace.

We deeply understand that both partners are hurting—just in different ways.
If you’ve been betrayed, you may feel shattered, like the ground beneath you is no longer solid. You may swing between grief, rage, hopelessness, and a longing for the relationship to be okay again.
If you’re the one who broke trust, you may feel paralyzed with guilt, unsure how to make things right, afraid you’ve lost the person you love forever.
We hold space for both of you—with honesty, compassion, and care.

Here’s what we help couples and individuals work through:

  • How to begin processing the emotional impact of the betrayal

  • Whether and how to rebuild trust after it’s been broken

  • What the affair or betrayal meant—and what it didn’t mean

  • How to talk about what happened in a way that fosters healing, not more harm

  • How to set boundaries, rebuild safety, and reconnect emotionally and physically

  • What it looks like to repair, redefine, or respectfully end the relationship

Every couple and every betrayal is different. That’s why we meet you right where you are—with no judgment, no assumptions, and no agenda other than helping you find clarity, healing, and a way forward.

We offer three ways to support your healing:

  • Couples Therapy: A structured, supportive space to process the betrayal, rebuild safety, and decide how to move forward—together or apart.

  • Individual Therapy: For those needing to process what happened, whether you’re the one who was hurt or the one who caused harm.

  • Private Intensives: For couples who want to dive deep and make meaningful progress over the course of one or two concentrated days of therapy.

We know how painful this season can be. But with the right guidance, many couples move through infidelity and into a relationship that is even more honest, secure, and connected than before. Others find the clarity and strength to part ways with care and mutual respect.

Whatever path you're on, we’re here to walk beside you—with empathy, expertise, and a belief in your ability to heal and grow. You don’t have to face this alone. Reach out today to begin your healing journey.