At Integrative Couples Therapy, we understand the unique challenges that military and veteran couples face. The demands of military life, deployments, long separations, frequent moves, and the stress of service-related trauma can place significant strain on even the strongest relationships. We are honored to support active-duty service members, veterans, and their partners as they navigate the complexities of connection, communication, and intimacy within this unique context.

Our therapists bring cultural sensitivity and deep respect for the military lifestyle and the sacrifices it requires. We understand that service impacts not just the individual, but the entire family system. You may be navigating:

• Repeated cycles of deployment and reintegration

• Emotional disconnection caused by trauma or PTSD

• Heightened stress, anxiety, or hyper-vigilance

• Shifts in family roles and parenting challenges during deployments

• Rebuilding intimacy after separation or combat-related experiences

• The transition to civilian life and adjusting to new roles, identities, and expectations

We approach these challenges with compassion, creating a safe space where both partners can express their needs, fears, and hopes.

Our Approach

Our work with military and veteran couples is rooted in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a research-backed approach that strengthens emotional bonds and fosters secure, resilient relationships. We help couples identify and break out of negative patterns that keep them stuck in conflict, disconnection, or avoidance. Together, we explore the emotional impact of military experiences on each partner and the relationship as a whole.

Through therapy, couples learn to:

• Understand the impact of military service and trauma on the relationship

• Communicate openly and effectively about difficult emotions and experiences

• Rebuild emotional and physical intimacy

• Develop tools for navigating transitions, reintegration, and family stressors

• Create a sense of emotional safety and connection that endures through life’s challenges

Our Commitment to You

We know how deeply military couples value loyalty, commitment, and service — and we aim to mirror those values in the work we do together. Whether you are active duty, a veteran, or a military spouse or partner, we’re here to support your relationship through all stages of service and beyond.

We offer therapy that is:

• Confidential

• Culturally competent

• Flexible to accommodate your schedule

Who We Recommend

For therapy we recommend Marissa Massimini, LMFT if you are seeking a therapist with experience in supporting military and veteran couples. We also recommend our Couples Workshop.

Next Steps

If you’re ready to strengthen your relationship, reconnect, and heal, we invite you to reach out. Whether you’re preparing for deployment, navigating reintegration, or adjusting to civilian life, our team is here to walk alongside you. Contact us today to learn more about how Integrative Couples Therapy can support military and veteran couples in building strong, connected, and resilient relationships.